Unlovable is memoir meets how-to guide. I share my story of childhood abandonment, sexual abuse, and growing up in the foster system.  This  early childhood trauma led me down a path of self-sabotage and destruction, desperately seeking to fill the void in my heart with men, acceptance, status, and alcohol.  At 40, I seemed to have it all by the world’s standards, but I still felt empty. Facing a second divorce, I finally came to the end of my own rope. Unlovable outlines the exact 8 steps I took to gain radical freedom from those painful childhood wounds. When I quit searching for love in all the wrong places and took a chance on God, He was able to heal all my broken pieces. This book is for anyone who knows there HAS to be a better way to do life, but doesn’t know how to go about it. If you’re ready to live a life free from the bondage of your past, I serve up practical steps and applications that will help you step into the life you’re meant to live and who God created you to be.